We Care Wednesday: Distraction
There has been a lot of talk about depression since we lost one of the most loved men in the world this past week. I would guess that anyone reading this post has at one time or another suffered from some sort of depression with varying degrees of intensity. As many have said in articles this past week, there is not any single thing that can break a person out of this. However, there is a little thing that you can do for someone that may temporarily break them out of their funk; a distraction.
What do I mean by a distraction? I will use myself as an example. I am currently in a very difficult situation at my place of employment. The owner fired 25% of the workforce the beginning of the year. I have been given the privilege of taking over another person’s position as well as having to do my own without any additional compensation. I am completely overwhelmed at the moment. At first, I was able to handle things but as the months have worn on I find myself getting further behind. I feel that I am in an impossible position as there are no jobs in my area for me to apply for to remove myself from this situation. I come home at night to an empty house. I don’t have anyone here to talk to about how I feel. Put all these things together, and I have the perfect recipe for a severe bout of depression. I feel trapped with no way out. However, there is something that helps pull me out for a while which helps to give me a new perspective; distraction.
What do I use for distraction? I find a song that speaks to me and touches my heart in a way that brings a smile to my face. I may play that song over and over again. I have been known to set my iTunes to do a single repeat of a song for hours. If a song makes me feel good, then I play it all the time. It is my way to help pull me out of my funk.
Each of us has something that can be used as a distraction for when we are feeling down. You can touch a person by a small gift. Bring them some ice cream or chocolate. Any little thing can help to bring a person out of the depths of despair. Think of a little something that would bring a smile to each of your family members, then go out and do it for them. It may not resolve their problems, but it will show them that they are loved and help to give them a little different perspective on their current issues.
If case you are wondering what I am using for my distractions of late. Here are the songs / artists I am hooked on:
Lindsey Stirling – everything by her on her two DVDs.
Lindsey Stirling – Lindsey Stirling
Shatter Me – Lindsey Stirling
50 Ways to Say Goodbye – Train
50 Ways to Say Goodbye – California 37
Country Girl – Luke Bryan
Country Girl (Shake It for Me) – Tailgates & Tanlines
Lightning in a Bottle – The Summer Set
(warning: this song has a single bad word in the chorus)
Lightning In a Bottle – Legendary
aimee fauci
August 20, 2014 @ 9:46 am
Most def true.. if you know or see or suspect someone is having troubles. Sadly, often times people have a way of hiding depression. I’m sorry that they’ve thrown that entire work load on you. It seems like they always do that but hopefully it will lighten up or maybe help will be offered?!!?
Gregory Johnson
August 20, 2014 @ 12:50 pm
Aimee I am extremely good at hiding what is truly going on inside my head. I walk around work humming a little tune and people think I am on top or the world when inside I am not. I don’t have people here that I feel I can trust to talk about things so I use distractions to help me get through those times when I am feeling low. It helps me a lot. Thanks for the reply.
Trish
August 20, 2014 @ 10:09 am
This is a great blog post, and very inspiring. I also find music to be a perfect distraction when I am depressed. Nothing is better for uplifting my mood!
Gregory Johnson
August 20, 2014 @ 12:52 pm
Music is my oasis away from the world. 🙂 Thank you for the reply.
Melanie
August 20, 2014 @ 11:48 am
This is so true! I love that you are sharing this with the world!
Gregory Johnson
August 20, 2014 @ 12:56 pm
I hope that people will realize that even the smallest distraction away from a problem or issue can help get their mind off things for a bit and maybe when they come back to the problem they may be able to see things a bit differently.
Tiffany
August 20, 2014 @ 11:54 am
I think my best distractions are a few moments of snuggle time with my Hubby or Kiddies…they always make me forget how bad any day is.
Gregory Johnson
August 20, 2014 @ 12:53 pm
That is wonderful that you have that to help make you forget when a day doesn’t go well.