Time Waits For No One
You have probably heard the saying, “Time Waits For No One.” It’s true. Time keeps marching on whether we want it to or not.
Looking back through the years, it seemed like time was dragging by in my childhood days. Once I became an adult, though, time started to go by faster and faster – too fast for my liking! It seemed like I wouldn’t ever get through school and finally graduate, but after graduation, weeks quickly turned into months, then years, and now I look around and wonder where did the past 25 years go?
When I had my babies and was awake in the wee morning hours trying to comfort my little one with a severe case of colic, I didn’t think the hands on the clock were moving at all. Time seemed to crawl as this sleep deprived mama just wanted to lay her head down, but no rest was to be found until the right combination of gas relief drops and formula were used to combat the colic (along with riding my baby around in the middle of the night as nothing seemed to soothe her unless she was in the moving vehicle). Now, my little baby is all grown up and is a Senior in high school talking about going off to college. This leaves me wondering where has the time gone? It seems like I blinked my eyes, and she’s all grown up!
I wish I could grasp the hands of time and make them go slowly now … instead of the days racing by. My youngest daughter will soon be celebrating her 10th birthday. Oh my! It seemed like only yesterday I was cradling my little miracle baby in my arms for the first time with tears of joy streaming down my face as her little fingers wrapped around my index finger. Now, she’s walking around in her cowboy boots and Western hat jumping on the back of her horse to ride off into the sunset (okay, maybe not that dramatic, but you get the idea). She has always been a strong willed I-can-do-it-myself type of girl. Now is no different as I watch her gain the respect and control of her very large horse as she leads her around.
Time waits for no one! No one I tell you!
And then there is the other saying, “Time heals all wounds.” Is this really true? Has time really healed the wound, or is the wound still there but covered by other things to mask the pain we’re feeling? Has time allowed healing to occur since it has put some distance in between the initial shock of the moment and the present day where we’ve been allowed to deal with the issue? It’s something to think about.
But time marches on. Whether we like it or not. That is why it is so important to capture every memory-making-moment possible. Take advantage of the time you do have with your family and friends. Not a single person is guaranteed the gift of another day. We never know when our time will be up, and when God will call us home to be with Him. I pray that He allows me to be here for many, many, many more years with my daughters, but this is not promised to any one. Make the most of the time you have been given. Right here, right now, this very moment. Reach out while you still have time and let someone know that you care, that you love them, you’re thinking of them, and you’re thankful for the times you’ve shared with them.
Time waits for no one. Stop wasting time and get out there and do something for and with someone near and dear to your heart … so that when your time is up, you will leave a beautiful legacy behind.
Cathy Kennedy
September 4, 2014 @ 9:41 am
Good words of advice. I need to step up to the plate and get the things accomplished I want most to do because regret is a horrible thing. It’s nice to meet you through the IWSG!
Shirley
September 4, 2014 @ 12:44 pm
It is so nice to meet you, too!! Thank you so much for stopping by my little corner of the web. I am thrilled to have you visiting with us!
Natalie
September 4, 2014 @ 8:28 pm
I, too, am bad about wanting time to go faster. When we first had our daughter and we were going through that sleep deprived stage, I would get through every day the best I could–usually praying for 5 o’clock to roll around so my husband would come home. Now that she’s older, I need to focus on being there for her every day, and not wishing for the next milestone, the next holiday, or the next vacation!
Shirley
September 5, 2014 @ 1:19 am
Amen, Natalie! These years are so precious with our little ones. It’s so hard when they are babies, and we feel the demands placed on us with such little sleep! Then it seems like we blink, and they are all grown up!
Xiomeeks
September 4, 2014 @ 8:57 pm
So true. I’m such a planner that I still keep an agenda with me to track all of our activities. I want to make sure I spend as much time with my girls doing fun stuff as time spent doing all the other stuff!
Shirley
September 5, 2014 @ 1:17 am
Exactly. We have to find the right balance, Xiomeeks!